Letters 11–16 show how relationships can be full of misunderstanding and pressure. Harpo wants love, but he also wants power. Sofia wants freedom, not control. Reflect on a time when someone’s desire for control hurt a friendship or relationship. What advice would you give to Harpo or Sofia if you could?

 Writing prompt: I've had my fair share of relationships. However, there is one particular relationship where everything was nothing but control. When you deal with people who want to control you, it tells you they had a past with someone very controlling, or they themselves have a certain insecurity. You have two options: leave the person or fight for it. When I was in my relationship, I had let myself be controlled. It didn't matter the age, nor the gender, nor anything else; it was simply draining, and I did not have the strength to leave or fight. It lasted for a year and seven months. What I would tell Harpo is that controlling someone is never the way to go. They are not animals, they are women. If you want to gain respect and be that male head, it's earned. There is always a balance that has to be maintained. It is also very important to build that trust with your partner. For Sofia, it is okay to keep your guard up. I know you love Harpo, too. I know you have a past, but if you're willing to help me help you relieve some of that trauma off your shoulders, let's do it. It is a matter of communication and knowing your partner. 

Summary: Today, continue reading the book The Color Purple, and we started working on our letter project.


Reflection: Today, I learned that it is okay to have a guard up when one is testing new waters. 

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